Do You Secretly Feel Like a Fraud?

Woman in red in her office with no smile indicating imposter syndrome.

You’ve worked hard, achieved great things, and built a life that many would admire. Yet, instead of feeling confident in your success, you battle with an inner voice that whispers, “You don’t belong here. You’re not good enough. One day, they’ll find out.”

If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. Imposter syndrome affects countless high-achieving women, making them feel unworthy of their success despite their qualifications and accomplishments. In a city like Boston—home to top universities, prestigious businesses, and competitive industries—these feelings can be even more intense.

What Is Imposter Syndrome?

Imposter syndrome is the persistent belief that your wins and successes are not due to your own skills and/or achievements. Instead, people who struggle with imposter syndrome believe it is due to luck or external factors.

This often leads to:

These patterns can hold you back from fully embracing your success and feeling at peace with your accomplishments.

Why High-Achieving Women Experience Imposter Syndrome

Women in demanding careers—such as executives, academics, medical professionals, and entrepreneurs—often feel immense pressure to perform at exceptionally high levels. Many factors contribute to this, including:

Societal expectations that women must “prove” their competence

A lack of representation in leadership roles, making it harder to feel like you belong

Perfectionist tendencies that make you set unrealistically high standards

Comparisons to others, fueling the belief that you’re not good enough

The result? You downplay your success, dismiss your abilities, and live with the fear that you’ll be “found out.”

How Working with a Boston Therapist Can Help You Overcome Imposter Syndrome

The good news? You don’t have to live with imposter syndrome forever. Therapy provides the tools and mindset shifts necessary to break free from self-doubt and embrace your accomplishments with confidence.

At Wellcore Healing, Alexis Verbin, LCSW, LICSW helps high-achieving women in Boston, Denver, Burlington, Clearwater, and beyond reframe their thinking and step into their success using:

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT): Challenge negative thought patterns

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT): Reduce fear and self-judgment

Mindfulness Techniques: Stay grounded in your strengths

Self-Compassion Practices: Quiet your inner critic and celebrate your wins

Through therapy, you’ll learn to trust yourself, own your achievements, and move forward with the self-assurance you deserve.

Small Steps to Start Overcoming Imposter Syndrome

While therapy is an invaluable tool for deeper healing, you can start shifting your mindset today with these small but powerful steps:

Keep a Success Journal: Write down your wins—big or small—to remind yourself of your accomplishments.

Challenge Negative Thoughts: When self-doubt creeps in, ask yourself, “What evidence do I have that I’m not qualified?” You can also ask yourself, “What evidence do I have than I am qualified.”

Accept Compliments: Instead of dismissing praise, practice saying, “Thank you. I worked hard for this.”

Talk About It: Imposter syndrome thrives in secrecy. Opening up to a friend you trust or an experienced therapist can help you normalize your feelings and give you new perspectives.

You Deserve to Own Your Success

If imposter syndrome is holding you back from feeling confident and fulfilled, it’s time to break the cycle. Therapy can help you shift your mindset, reduce self-doubt, and step into the success you’ve rightfully earned.

📅 Ready to move towards confidence and self-acceptance? Schedule a free consultation today!

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